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๐—˜๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป: The Other Side of Being a Diva



In a recent post, I defended divas โ€” people who insist on having the perfect conditions to perform at their best.


๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ด๐—ผ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป.


Take ๐—ž๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ž๐—ผฬˆ๐—น๐—ป ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ as an example. In 1975, he was given a piano that was out of tune and not the model heโ€™d requested.ย 


By all rights, Jarrett could have walked away. Instead, he embraced the limitations and delivered one of the most iconic and best-selling jazz recordings of all time.


If he had refused to play because the conditions werenโ€™t perfect, we wouldnโ€™t have that masterpiece today.


Having high standards is essential. But insisting on perfection can cause us to miss those moments where creativity and adaptability spark something truly remarkable.


When presenting, I do my best work when I can control the setup. For example, I refuse to submit my slides weeks in advance, so I can update content right before the show.ย 


But Iโ€™ve also learned that ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป, ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ณ, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—œ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ผ๐˜€.


The key is balancing those high standards with flexibility.


Because while perfection might be the goal, itโ€™s often the imperfections that lead to brilliance.

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